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Kaitlyn and Tristan dance with their guests beside Bucks Lake, light up batons in the air

Kaitlyn & Tristan’s Reno Wedding

The Lakeshore Resort, Bucks Lake, California

The Details

This wedding was simply magic.

Couple
Kaitlyn & Tristan
Date
July 18th, 2026
Guests
~150

Their Story

This wedding was simply magic.

Guests dance on the lakeside patio as the golden hour sun flares through the pines at Bucks Lake

That's not to say that it was without its own fair share of setbacks and unforeseen circumstances.

Wendy, the mother of the bride, contacted me in January after seeing my Renown Celebrate Amazing video.

Guests dance in a circle beside Bucks Lake, raising glowing foam batons under the tall pines

Since she and her daughter Kaitlyn (the bride) both work at Renown, they wanted to hire a DJ who did too! Not only am I the resident DJ for Renown's Annual Celebrate Amazing Gala, but I was born there 30 years ago. But of course, that was back when it was Washoe Med.

Kaitlyn laughs in white sunglasses as friends raise foam batons around her, the forested mountain behind

As a matter of fact, when Wendy contacted me I was just finishing up delivering bouquets of flowers to Nicole and Kristen, my contacts at Renown.

Wendy told me that her daughter's wedding would be taking place in Bucks Lake, California. This was the first time that I had heard of this beautiful lake.

The whole wedding party under paper lanterns at night at Kaitlyn & Tristan's Bucks Lake wedding

As the wedding approached, I received an iMessage from Wendy, confirming that Kaitlyn's music requests had been correctly recorded. When I opened the music request sheet, I was shocked to see that she had requested over 100 songs, and most of them were bangers! I loved the instrumental covers of love songs she wanted for her ceremony, and almost all of the must play dance songs were fire! As a DJ, someone who has been to hundreds of weddings at this point, my hat goes off to Kaitlyn and Tristan for their song selection. I had to update my main playlists because they requested such excellent and deep cuts!

Songs like Paper Planes Intro, and Temperature Intro, and Satisfaction Original Isak Extended Mix. As a die hard Benny Benassi fan, this was the first time I had heard of this mix!

After purchasing, downloading, organizing, and backing up all of their music, their wedding day came...

DJ Jon gives two thumbs up from behind his decks at the lakeside reception

The beauty of Bucks Lake took me by surprise. The remote location near Quincy, CA, complete lack of cell service, lush green trees and foliage, and stunning wildflowers that painted the sides of the roads were simply breathtaking.

The low sun bursts through the pines over guests dancing beside Bucks Lake

The sapphire blue waters were mesmerizing to me as I was setting up my gear. I was informed that there was an issue with PG&E, potentially prohibiting Kaitlyn and Tristan from having their wedding ceremony in the meadow as they planned. This must have been shocking to them, as they had already gotten their permits for the wedding many months in advance.

Thankfully, a conclusion was reached, and the wedding ceremony was allowed to continue at the originally intended location. Or so we thought...

Guests dancing with glow batons under the pines at Bucks Lake

Just after mic checking the officiant, setting up my generator, EZ Up, speaker, and laptop for the ceremony, we were informed by the fire chief that there had been a fatal ATV accident.

He proceeded to inform us that an emergency helicopter landing would be taking place in the ceremony site, and that we'd have to move all of the chairs, the arch, and all of my gear out of the way, immediately.

The whole crowd dances on the lakeside patio at sunset, foam batons in the air and Bucks Lake behind them

We complied, and it wasn't long before the plan changed again: instead of waiting for the helicopter, the decision was made to move everything to the reception site, so that's exactly what we did. This is where Paul, of the main Bucks Lake lodge, and Valerie of The Keepsake Co. Events really shined. A normal wedding presents enough stress for the venue and the coordinator. But a helicopter making an emergency Care Flight landing in the ceremony site? That's an unheard of kind of stress! But they both rose to the occasion, and were able to get everyone exactly where they needed to go.

The ceremony started an hour late, but we were able to quickly make up time. And the arch in front of the beautiful blue water of the lake was surreal. After the chaos of the ceremony wound down, we got the evening back on track with photos and cocktail hour. Then, it was time for the grand entrance.

Kaitlyn raises a foam baton with her friends in the middle of the packed dance floor under the pines

Tristan's Vows

It is a bond for life. I am yours. You are mine forever.

Tristan, the Groom

Kaitlyn and Tristan originally planned to do their grand entrance to I'm on a Boat by The Lonely Island featuring T-Pain. But due to the helicopter landing issue, they weren't able to ride the boat over from the ceremony site to the reception site. But I still recommended that they did their grand entrance to I'm on a Boat, and I'm so glad they listened!

The wedding party strikes a pose with foam batons raised beside Bucks Lake

The crowd roared as I announced them, and the ground shook as they walked through the tunnel of their friends and family cheering and blowing bubbles.

Kaitlyn laughs in heart sunglasses as friends swing foam batons through drifting bubbles under the pinesGuests dancing beside the lake at golden hour at Bucks Lake

Speeches were long, emotional, and very sweet.

Then, it was finally time for dancing, and that's where I really shine. I could tell right from the first few songs that this crowd was 10/10. I am not exaggerating when I say that the dance floor was a mosh pit. The peak of the dancing was when I played Usher, Yeah, and placed my Burning Man hat on Tristan. What a night!

Kaitlyn dances with a man in a fringed hat, tall pines and a forested mountain behind themKaitlyn and her friends cross foam batons as the light fades over Bucks Lake

Later, we all jumped in the lake together, and the next day I saw a Fire Rainbow!

A guest in heart sunglasses dances with a glowing baton as dusk settles over the pines and paper lanterns

The family was very generous, and tipped me $200.

Thank you very much Wendy, Kaitlyn, and Tristan!

The Photos

Photos by Fernando Montenegro

The Vows & Speeches

Transcribed from my live recording of Kaitlyn & Tristan's day, and shared here with the family's permission

Tristan's Vows

The first time I laid eyes on you, it felt like a deer in headlights, not just because you tried running me over with your car, but because your most amazing smile could light up the darkest of nights.

But it's too late now for returns or refunds, even if you have the receipts.

Tristan, the Groom

Kaitlyn's Vows

Our story started out like something I would read in one of my cheesy romance books, where the girl waves to a guy she's never met in a parking lot and they fall in love.

You were everything I never knew I was missing, and I wouldn't change a thing.

No matter where life takes us, home will never be a place. Home will always be wherever I am with you.

Kaitlyn, the Bride

Father of the Bride

Well, I can say honestly, Kaitlyn, you chose the best.

Todd

Mother of the Bride

It feels like just yesterday I was holding you for the first time, praying over you, wondering who you would become.

I want you both to always remember: marriage isn't about finding the perfect person. It's about choosing each other every single day.

Kaitlyn, you will always be my little girl.

Wendy

Brother of the Bride

I've been the butt of many of her jokes, like the one time she duct taped me to the wall at my aunt's house.

And Tristan, I hope that you enjoy growing old with my sister as much as I did growing up with her.

Caleb

The Best Man

Well, Tristan finally got his tag. I didn't know they were years in advance, I thought this one was just seasonal. And guess what? That's his beautiful wife, Kaitlyn.

This will be the first and the last time that you have the upper hand over your wife.

Trevor

Kaitlyn's Childhood Best Friend

I don't know much about Tristan, but I just know that he came into her life at a great time, and he makes her very happy.

Makayla

The Maid of Honor

Our very first interaction actually happened in the break room, where she was watching Grey's Anatomy on full volume.

The most beautiful part isn't just the flowers or the decorations, it's seeing you marry your best friend.

I guess TikTok was right, you really do meet some of your best friends at work.

Hailey

Brother of the Groom

What I can say, Kaitlyn, is you're marrying the most emotional brother. But with that, you're probably also marrying the most loyal one, the one who will bend over backwards for you and do whatever you need him to do.

Caleb

Mother of the Groom

Kaitlyn, you put a spark in my son's eye that just lights up a room.

After you met Kaitlyn, you told me, "Mom, she's the only one that I can be myself around. She's the one for me."

Shelly

Father of the Groom

Kaitlyn, you're taking my hunter away.

Now it's for you to start your hunting journey together.

Tim

A Thank You from the Bride & Groom

This day is exactly how I dreamed it, and I couldn't have asked for anything better.

Kaitlyn & Tristan

Key Songs

The moments that mattered at Kaitlyn & Tristan's wedding, and what was playing

Bride & Father's Arrival
Ludovico Einaudi - Experience
Wedding Party Processional
Taylor Acorn - First Date
Wedding Party Entrance
OneRepublic - I Ain't Worried
Father Daughter Dance
Heartland - I Loved Her First
Mother Son Dance
Shinedown - Simple Man

Full Setlist

Every track from Kaitlyn & Tristan's night, in the order I played them

  1. 1.James Taylor - Shower The People
  2. 2.Etta James - At Last
  3. 3.The Dixie Cups - Chapel Of Love
  4. 4.Israel "Iz" Kamakawiwo'ole - Somewhere over the Rainbow, What a Wonderful world
  5. 5.Yiruma - River Flows In You
  6. 6.The Beatles - Eight Days A Week
  7. 7.Marvin Gaye - Ain't No Mountain High Enough
  8. 8.The Beatles - With A Little Help From My Friends
  9. 9.Allen & Bright - You and Me (Instrumental)
  10. 10.Steve Petrunak - From The Ground Up (Instrumental Version)
  11. 11.Joel Grainger - A Thousand Years by Christina Perri | Violin Cover | Joel Grainger
  12. 12.Alan Ng - Can't Help Falling in Love (Violin Instrumental)
  13. 13.Piano Tribute Players & Piano Love Songs - Marry Me (Instrumental Version)
  14. 14.Brent Morgan - You'll Be In My Heart
  15. 15.Taylor Acorn - First Date
  16. 16.Ludovico Einaudi - Experience
  17. 17.Brent Morgan - Kiss the Girl from The Little Mermaid | Brent Morgan Cover
  18. 18.Seafret - Wildfire
  19. 19.Jack Johnson - Better Together
  20. 20.Toploader - Dancing in the Moonlight (2001 Remix)
  21. 21.Creedence Clearwater Revival - Have You Ever Seen The Rain
  22. 22.ns mcWRLD - Post Malone - Circles
  23. 23.Whethan - Good Nights (feat. Mascolo)
  24. 24.Sleeping At Last - Turning Page
  25. 25.Good Songs - Marti West - Feels Like Home
  26. 26.The Hound + The Fox - Simply the Best (from "Schitt's Creek") | The Hound + The Fox
  27. 27.Bailey Zimmerman - Hell or High Water (From Twisters: The Album)
  28. 28.Gigi Perez - Sailor Song
  29. 29.The Paper Kites - Bloom
  30. 30.Vance Joy - I'm With You
  31. 31.Max McNown - Better Me For You (Brown Eyes)
  32. 32.LatinHype - Myles Smith - Stargazing
  33. 33.Ruth B. - Dandelions
  34. 34.Brenden Gronniger - Corey Kent - Wannabe (Wichita, KS; 01/23/26)
  35. 35.Kanye West feat. Dwele - Flashing Lights
  36. 36.Dusty Springfield - The Look Of Love
  37. 37.Fearless Soul - One of The Most Beautiful Songs Ever Written 😢😭 (EMOTIONAL)
  38. 38.Noah Kahan, Gracie Abrams - Everywhere, Everything
  39. 39.PARMALEE - Take My Name (Wedding Version)
  40. 40.Brett Young - In Case You Didn't Know
  41. 41.The Lonely Island - I'm On A Boat (ft. T-Pain)
  42. 42.Luke Combs - Giving Her Away
  43. 43.Luke Combs - Forever After All
  44. 44.Brandon Lake - NOTHING NEW (I DO) - Wedding Version ft. Brittany Lake
  45. 45.Cody Johnson - Dirt Cheap
  46. 46.JonWiilde - Home Is You - Jon Wiilde ( Visualizer)
  47. 47.Sixpence None The Richer - Kiss Me
  48. 48.Brent Morgan - Home
  49. 49.2 Lane Summer - First Dancin'
  50. 50.ysabelle - Crazier
  51. 51.Spencer Crandall - Worth the Wait
  52. 52.Liv Harland - Oceans (Spirit Lead Me)
  53. 53.OneRepublic - I Ain't Worried
  54. 54.Casper Esmann - Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol - Fingerstyle Harp Guitar Cover
  55. 55.Piano Dreamers - Forever (Instrumental)
  56. 56.Isaiah Sheffield, Holden Hastings, Isaiah Sheffield, Holden Hastings - The Night We Met (feat. Holden Hastings)
  57. 57.Brian Catuccio - I Get to Love You (Instrumental)
  58. 58.Daniel Jang - Goodness of God - Bethel Music - violin cover
  59. 59.John Michael Montgomery - Sold
  60. 60.P!nk - Get The Party Started
  61. 61.The Black Eyed Peas - I Gotta Feeling
  62. 62.Earth, Wind & Fire - Let's Groove
  63. 63.Eminem - Without Me
  64. 64.Heartland - I Loved Her First
  65. 65.Shinedown - Simple Man
  66. 66.Rascal Flatts - My Wish
  67. 67.Def Leppard - Pour Some Sugar On Me
  68. 68.Dire Straits - Money For Nothing
  69. 69.Here Fishie Fishie
  70. 70.Pitbull featuring John Ryan - Fireball
  71. 71.LatinHype - RAYE - Where Is My Husband
  72. 72.David Guetta & Bebe Rexha - I'm Good (Blue) (Clean)
  73. 73.Nelly Ft. Dani Stevenson - Hot In Herre (Dj Rukus Intro Edit) (Super Clean)
  74. 74.Sean Paul - Temperature (Intro Outro)
  75. 75.Shaboozey - Tall Boy
  76. 76.Natasha Bedingfield - Pocketful Of Sunshine
  77. 77.Travis Porter - Ayy ladies
  78. 78.Thomas Rhett - Die A Happy Man
  79. 79.Sofi Tukker - Purple Hat
  80. 80.M.I.A. - Paper Planes (CK Intro - Clean)
  81. 81.Shaboozey - A Bar Song (Tipsy)
  82. 82.Justin Bieber - Boyfriend
  83. 83.Glass Animals & iann dior - Heat Waves (with iann dior)
  84. 84.Tove Lo - Talking Body (KREAM Remix)
  85. 85.Drop the Bassline - Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom (Trap Remix)
  86. 86.J. Dash - Wop
  87. 87.ILLENIUM, Jon Bellion - Good Things Fall Apart (Tiësto's Big Room Remix)
  88. 88.Cloonee, Young M.A, InntRaw - Stephanie (HNTR Remix)
  89. 89.Lil Jon & The East Side Boyz - Shots (Feat. LMFAO)
  90. 90.Billy Joel - Uptown Girl
  91. 91.Rick Springfield - Jessie's Girl
  92. 92.Idina Menzel - Let It Go (from “Frozen”)
  93. 93.Top Squad - Luther Vandross - Here and Now
  94. 94.Katy Perry - California Gurls (CFLO Intro)
  95. 95.Chubby Checker - The Twist

In Their Words

Real reviews from Kaitlyn & Tristan's celebration

Kaitlyn dances as streamers fly through the night air at Bucks Lake
DJ Jon from DJ Reno was absolutely amazing. I would highly recommend him for your next event. We hired DJ Jon for my daughter's wedding which was a 3hr drive from Reno to our venue and he had no issues with that! The music was amazing as well as his MC! He engaged with the guest and had everyone on the dance floor. Towards the end of the event when the wedding party jump in the lake he even joined in. If I ever need a DJ again, I will be sure to hire DJ Reno again.
★★★★★
Wendy Harris Google, July 18, 2026

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